Treasuring the Moments
Sorry for the absence lately.
My grandfather passed away 2 1/2 weeks ago, and I brought my dear grandmother home to live with me. Alzheimer’s disease has cruelly stolen away many of her memories and normal mental functions. It’s painful to helplessly watch the confusion and frustration that she deals with every day, not to mention the sad look in her eyes when she asks where her husband is.
While some forgetfulness is a normal part of life, Alzheimer’s Disease, a degenerative brain disorder that attacks the nerve cells of the brain cortex and some surrounding areas, causes such a decline in cognitive abilities that the individual is eventually unable carry out basic daily activities, such as dressing, eating, and going to the bathroom without assistance.
Although the exact cause of this condition is not known for certain, there is some evidence that the same lifestyle factors that help prevent diabetes and heart disease can also prevent mental decline. Researchers believe that a healthful diet, plenty of outdoor physical exercise, and avoiding tobacco and alcohol may reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
No two people experience this disease in the same way, so there is no “set” rule for how to care for someone with Alzheimers, but it is usually quite challenging and can often be overwhelming. Though the same questions may be repeated over and over, each new day may bring a new set of emotions to deal with. Despite the demands and many unknowns, I’m treasuring the moments with her and hoping I can give back some of the love that she has shared with me throughout the years.
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Jennifer, my deepest sympathies for the loss of your grandfather. My heart goes out to you. I know how you're feeling. I lost a dear aunt, just two days ago to lung cancer, caused by second-hand smoke. We are attending her funeral this afternoon. We take heart, as I know you do, that we will see our loved ones again when Jesus returns to call all his people home. Your grandfather's fight is over, as is my aunt's. They sleep in peace now. 🙂
I will lift you up in prayer as you begin this journey of caring for your grandmother full time. I am a caregiver and have worked with a few people who have Alzheimer's. It can be very trying some days. That said, I feel very blessed to have known & worked with these people.
I wanted to pass along a web link where you can obtain a free book (or you can download the book for free, if you prefer). It's called: The Alzheimer's Playbook. It was written by a man whose wife had Alzheimer's. I called & requested three copies myself, several months back. I've found it so very helpful in my work and I think you will really benefit from it too.
You'll find the book here:
http://www.alzheimersplaybook.com/
Hi Debbie,
Thank you so much for your prayers. I’m very sorry for your loss as well. Death is peaceful, but we miss our loved ones so much. I’m also looking forward to that day when Jesus calls them out of the grave and ends all sadness.
Thank you for the link for the Alzheimer’s Playbook. It sounds like it will be a very good resource.
I will pray for you in your loss.
Take care,
Jennifer
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I will keep you in prayer as you care for your Grandmother. May God bless and comfort you.
Dear Jennifer, May the good Lord continue to keep you and your family. I am sorry for the pain you are experiencing right now. May Jesus come quickly.
Love, Amber
Yolanda and Amber,
Thank you both. I so much appreciate your prayers.